If you're a baby boomer feeling the inevitable burden of your aging parent's growing dependency on you (and it's starting to take over your life) then this is the most important message you will ever read.

 

 

Dear Fellow Baby-Boomer,

 

If you are reading this message then there is a very good chance that you have been confronted with something that almost every-single-one of us faces at one point in our lives.

 

And that something is the painful realization that your Mom or Dad has become dependent on you in some way, shape or form…

 

…forcing YOU to be the one playing the parental role and ultimately realizing that…

 

The Time Has Come

 

…where you are now responsible for taking care of your aging parent as they took care of you growing up, from the day you were born.

 

My name is Carolyn Rosenblatt…and in just a moment, I will show you how to more easily and successfully handle almost every aging parent issue you could have with as little conflict as possible…

 

…just as I have done for so many people, year after year.

 

And I will do this for you…

 

…no matter what your aging parent situation is (or might be)…

 

…and no matter how much pressure and pain you’ve already had.

Change the way you look at your job of caring for your parents—it can be a lot better.  Starting today.

I've been proving this bold promise for over 40 years now – working as a nurse (mostly with elders) for 10 years THEN going to law school, and practicing law for the next 30 – tackling the toughest elder issues.

 

I’ve seen all kinds of baby boomers (from all walks of life) who all share the exact same problem – their parent’s inevitable aging has become a massive burden on their everyday lives…

 

…and so has my husband – Dr. Mikol Davis, Psychologist – whom I have since teamed up with to form the most unique combination of professional backgrounds that elder consulting and mediation has ever seen.

 

Believe me when I say this – together, we have seen just about everything.

 

After YEARS of counseling baby boomers with their aging parent problems, it has become painstakingly clear exactly what the most common issues are, what you have to face as your parents grow older, and compiled an instantly valuable action-based resource to solve each problem as fast (and as efficiently) as humanly possible.

 

I’m talking about a full blown step-by-step breakdown of exactly what to do, what to say, who to talk to and where to go for the top 9 most irritating, confounding issues baby boomers like us must face…

 

…polished down in easy to implement techniques and tactics that are guaranteed to slash your learning curve in half, and help your family get back to “normal” in a fraction of the time it would take you to tackle these things on your own.

 

This solution based system is regarded as a “must have” for any baby boomer who is experiencing aging parent problems – whether they are just starting to see the issues forming or they’ve been slugging it out in the trenches for years already by in-the-know caregiver circles across the U.S.

 

Why?  Simply because it cuts straight to the heart of each issue and presents a clear road map that almost anyone can follow, no matter where they are  in their aging parent problem progression.

 

First and foremost, there’s the issue of…

 

 

“How To Help A Dangerous Older Driver

Give Up The Keys For Good”

 

There comes a time in every elder’s life that driving is no longer safe for anyone on the road.  Whether you’ve already had “the talk” – which may not have gone as planned – or, are just starting to approach this subject with your aging parent, then you are no stranger to how difficult a situation this can be.

 

What most people don’t realize is that there’s one single underlying dilemma that can make the subject of driving much more emotionally charged than other issues you may face with your aging parent, and I talk about it here:

 

(Click to see Carolyn talk about dangerous older drivers)

 

 

So what is an adult child to do?

 

Simple.  Get educated and learn the ropes of dealing with your dangerous older driver before disaster strikes and it’s too late.

 

That’s why I tackle this issue in explicit detail for an entire chapter…

 

…giving you the upper hand with your dangerous older driver…

 

…and resolving your conflicts before they start.

 

…and probably, saving lives…

 

 

I reveal everything, including:

 

• How to assess an elder’s driving capabilities without them ever knowing! (Hint - This trick alone can avoid hours of long, painful arguments with your aging loved one.)
  
  
• A new (and caring) approach to driving restrictions - so delicately and effective – that slashes your risk of an argument in half!
  
  

• A quick start-up tip for hiring licensed professionals to objectively evaluate your elder’s driving needs – so easy to use – you’ll blast through confusing “qualification barriers” fast and know exactly who to call… right from the start!
  
  

• How to determine the best (and safest) time for your elder to drive!  (Hint – This simple secret gets right-to-the-point…and makes restricting your elder driver 10 times easier!

• How to slowly limit your elder’s driving habits so they don’t feel angry, isolated or alone!

• How to safely (and easily) increase driving observation of your elders (among family members) before it interferes with your daily life…even if you live across the country!
  
  
• The 7 “secret” aging symptoms proven to botch driving performance…and how to spot these life-threatening “red flags” fast!  (Note – This process is incredibly efficient , once you know what to look for…)
  
  

• How to properly select a family “agent” to assist with your elder’s transportation!

• How to safely plan for what happens to loved ones with dementia (especially Alzheimer’s) when assessing an elder’s driving habits…and how to detect subtle warning signs - even during the confusing “early to middle stages” – that most people miss!  (Hint – This incredibly gray area becomes much easier to understand…once you have a timeline in mind.)

• Relax, knowing you won’t have to “wait until there’s an accident” to realize your elder can no longer drive and experience peace of mind before it’s too late!

• What little-known sign to look for that uncovers driving incompetence…even if you’re never with the elder on the road!  (Hint – This has nothing to do with your parent physically…but you’ll be shocked to discover how obvious – and alarming – this indicator really is.)

• The Top-3 best times to talk to your elders about their driving disabilities in a natural – and totally unthreatening - manner…steering you clear of  potential anger and resentment thwarting your good intentions!

• How to seamlessly communicate respect for your elder’s struggle to give up driving for good…and how to support them along the way!

• How to find low-cost driving services locally, so that your elder won’t be without a ride!  (Note – There are  services available in many communities, if you know who to call)

• The SINGLE most important thing you can do to communicate with your elder without upsetting them…and the worst sin you could ever commit – an unforgivable act that can destroy your relationship!

• How to determine the best living situation for an isolated elder if transportation isn’t available…and what else these options provide that most people unknowingly ignore!

• Power Struggles Exposed:  How to handle an elder who  absolutely refuses to give up driving with this straightforward, 5-Level, step-by-step approach to resolving conflict with your difficult elder for good!

• How to prevent “ganging up” on your parent when involving a 3rd party, and pave the path of least resistance so your conversation flows smoothly…even if they’ve always felt threatened before!

• How to find the right professional mediator if things get ugly!  (Hint – This is what I do professionally and I uncover lots of “insider” secrets I know…saving you from what may be one of the most heart-breaking conflicts of your life.)

• The correct way to conduct a family intervention!  This hyper-touchy subject can be an explosive nightmare if not handled properly…but you’ll be ready to handle it with confidence, once you learn how it's done!

• The 3 most dishonest acts committed by an adult child that – while attempting to help – can inflict trust-shattering emotional damage in their elder’s heart...and how to prevent this from happening to YOU!

• How to effectively use legal means – as a last resort – while drastically reducing blame, guilt or confrontation!  This technique can be your lifeline, helping you NOT be stonewalled when all else has failed and you fear for Mom or Dad’s immediate safety!

• A last stop legal tactic that gives you full legal control over your parent - if Mom or Dad becomes a serious danger to themselves and others …giving you a secret security plan that very few people really consider.  (Note – This topic is explained in critical detail - for 3 pages – to prepare you for this “worst case scenario”…before things get out of control.)
  
  
  
  
  

 

 

“How To Hire A Home Care

Worker You Can Trust”

The right home care worker can be a life saver if your aging parent is having trouble managing at home alone, especially if you or your family members live too far away to make regular visits.

 

But, if you’re aging parent is like almost EVERY other elder in the United States, then I’m willing to bet that hiring a home care worker isn’t an idea they are thrilled about.  It’s a matter of acceptance, and I talk about it here:

 

(Click To Watch Carolyn Talk About Home Care)

 

 

Taking charge and overcoming your aging parent’s resistance to hiring a home care worker can be 10-times easier than you ever dreamed possible, if you have the right help by your side.

But, that’s only the beginning.

The process of hiring a home care worker can feel very overwhelming for most folks, but the benefits of home care can change your family’s life forever…

 

…saving you days (if not weeks) of stress over your parent’s well-being…

…and seamlessly getting your parent the personalized care they deserve with confidence and peace of mind.

 

You’ll learn things like:

• The One most common trait aging parents' display that immediately signals loss of independence, and exactly what to do about it!
  
  
• How to handle angry resistance from your Mom or Dad over dependency issues!  (Note – This technique works 100 times better than the "head in the sand" approach your parent may take on naturally, especially when you know what the experts know)
  
  
• The absolute worst thing you can do once your parent’s independence starts to fade…and the best action-step you can take – right now – to prevent disasters from happening in the future!
  
  
• 7 easy steps to home care worker hiring – broken down in crystal-clear detail – that will slash your hiring search time in half!
  
  
• How to pick a qualified agency that is right for your Mom or Dad!  (Note – Your parent will appreciate your efforts more than anything, once you learn this simple technique)
  
  
• Exposed:  How a qualified home care worker should assess, plan for, and treat your parent – if they’re credible – and what major "red flags" to look for the first time you meet!
  
  
• 9 Crucial Disadvantages to hiring home care the wrong way…and exactly how to do it right!
  
  
• What to expect from an agency (to get the most out of your money) and what warning signs should make you run away as fast as possible!
  
  
• The little-known difference in what Medicare refers to as "skilled nursing" and traditional home care workers, what it means for your parent’s future, and why!
  
  
• How to reveal the quality of an agency lightning-fast with just a few, well chosen questions to the right people!  (Note – This will help you "cut to the chase" far more than you realize now, but it will be crystal-clear the moment you read)
  
  
• If you must hire home care workers privately and without an agency, learn how to find them, how to pay them, and other required knowledge before getting started!
  
  
• The Truth behind home care licensing…and the #1 most unforgivable act a potential home care worker could possibly commit!
  
  
• Ten quick-start tips for choosing a good home care worker to get you started right away!
  
  
  
  
  

“The Truth About Assisted Living”

 

Have you ever felt that the term “assisted living” was a grey area that didn’t really explain anything?

The truth is that an iron-clad definition of “assisted living” simply does not exist because - unlike nursing homes - they are not regulated by the U.S. government the way a health care facility is…

…meaning there are totally different rules, boundaries, and regulations…

…which could easily become a massive cloud of confusion if you don’t know the “ins and outs” of what goes on in assisted living facilities behind the scenes.

Are you being forced into making a decision on assisted living?  If so, you can hear me talk about it by clicking below:

 

 

 

I’ve boiled assisted living down to “assisted living for dummies” simplicity in a way that you will find instantly valuable and shockingly easy to use, revealing things like:

• How to detect why Assisted Living Facilities and Nursing Homes are NOT the same…and why most people get this wrong!  (Hint – Your housing decision will be 10-times easier…once you know what the experts know.)
  
  
• Shocking secret behind what “care” really means…and how to quickly discover which type of facility provides the right “care” for your aging parent!
  
  
• A sure-fire question to ask an Assisted Living Facility that instantly exposes quality of care!
  
  
• Little-known Medicare information that can make-or-break your housing decision!  (Note – This will shock you.)
  
  
• The 4 simple service styles of Assisted Living, and how to locate the perfect type that suits your elder’s needs!
  
  
• The Top 3 privileges - unique to Assisting Living Facilities - that Nursing Homes can’t provide!  Your loved one will appreciate this knowledge - and be much more willing to move – once you learn what they are!
  
  
• A quick-start tactic when looking for elder housing that slashes hours off your search efforts!
  
  
• How to make sure your elders get the proper care they deserve!  (Hint – Its all in the contract, and you’ll know exactly what to look for…once you know the secret)
  
  
• Why most elders prefer Assisted Living over Nursing Homes, and how to tell which housing will suit your loved one best… without having to ask!
  
  
• How to research Assisted Living Facilities fast…and what simple – yet hidden –qualities to look for that can directly affect your elder’s life!
  
  
• How to find the right location for your loved one’s new home!  (Hint – This is super-important if you live outside of your elder’s area…and can’t physically be there yourself)
  
  
• A “must know” tactic for moving elders with dementia…and how to make sure the Assisted Living Facility can provide them the extra attention they require!
  
  
• How to know your elder will love a potential Assisted Living Facility before you even suggest it!  (Note – Understanding this technique is vital for preventing painful arguments with aging loved ones)
  
  
• The truth behind price and how to really measure quality of Assisted Living!
  
  
• How to know your elder’s rights in Assisted Living… and how to advocate for their right to the respect they deserve before you sign a contract!
  
  
• How to talk to your aging loved one – minimizing conflict – about moving to assisted living facilities…and what to say to get them actively (and willingly) involved in your search for their new home!
  
  
• How to profile an assisted living community so that you know your elder will fit right in!  (Note – This “peace of mind” tactic will take more pressure off your shoulders than anything else)
  
  
• What your elder desperately wants from an assisted living facility, but will never come out and tell you!
  
  
• The 10 quick-start tips to understanding Assisted Living Facilities – with simple, crystal clarity - that will slash your stress level in half!  You’ll never have to feel guilty about the decision…once you discover how assisted living works.
  
  
  
  

 

 

“How To Select A High-Quality

Nursing Home”

When you’re dealing with nursing homes, you’ve got a lot on your plate.

 

As if searching for the “right” nursing home and dealing with your Mom or Dad’s resistance wasn’t enough, you now have to deal with getting the run-around by dozens (if not more) professionals pressuring you or giving you suggestions.

 

(Hint – I’ve sued nursing homes before and know exactly the type of treatment you may be subject to get from them)

 

Above all, you must do your research, which in itself can be overwhelming if you go at it alone.  I talk more about nursing home research in the video below…

 

 

 

I’m no stranger to nursing homes.  In fact, in my 10 years of nursing, I’ve been in more nursing homes then you’d find in a local phone book.

 

Since then I’ve learned a great deal that I will share with you, such as:

• 5 crucial comfort tips to start the dreaded “nursing home discussion” with your parent, what to expect, and how to avoid excruciating arguments!  (Hint – This issue can be incredibly difficult for most adult children to face, but will be tremendously simple when you know the right way to approach it)
  
  
• 3 easy steps to safely, calmly, and respectfully overcome resistance from your aging parent over nursing homes…no matter how upset they may seem!
  
  
• The Number-1 thing most adult children are afraid to ask for, but make your nursing home decisions 10-times easier!  (Note – Asking this one thing will never seem like a burden… once you understand how, and why)
  
  
• How to let go of guilt holding you back from taking smart (and necessary) action when faced with nursing home decisions!
  
  
• How to eliminate painful confusion from nursing home research online…and a wickedly effective investigation internet strategy that will shave hours off your nursing home search time!
  
  
• How to navigate (and interpret) the top 6 websites for uncovering hidden “red flags” that your potential nursing home may be hiding from you!  (Note – Many elders fall victim to these critical problems - if their children are oblivious to them - but you won’t have to worry about that, once I explain it to you in detail)
  
  
• The FIRST thing to look for when visiting a nursing home in person, and why noticing this one thing can prove an instant deal-breaker!  (Hint – It is NOT what you think it is…)
  
  
• How to get the “inner scoop” on a potential nursing home fast - even before the first time you visit - without coming across brash and demanding to the nursing home staff!
  
  
•  The top 3 questions to ask - that most people completely ignore – which could literally mean serious danger for your mom or dad…how to ask them, what answers to accept, and which answers would make any knowing person fly out the door in a heartbeat!  (Note – This is the MOST CRUCIAL part of your decision making process, and if you do not know what to look for, it can create nightmares to come)
  
  
• The dark (yet little-known) secret behind nursing home’s using physical restraints on their patients…and how to instantly know if the nursing home you’re reviewing will treat your parent with the tender care they deserve!
  
  
• The Two most overlooked daily concerns your potential nursing home MUST manage properly…what questions to ask, and the major dangers the “right” answers can avoid!
  
  
• What a good nursing home will do – every day – to prevent physical immobility injuries that can make your parent’s new home a living nightmare…and what else it says about the quality of their healthcare!
  
  
• How to strictly lay down expectations with your new nursing home staff in a cool, calm and collected manner…starting your relationship off on the proper foot and making the move-in process seamless and reassuring for everyone involved!
  
  
• How to make choices when distance is an issue and how to narrow down your options tactfully and without letting your emotions get too involved!
  
  
• Why most adult children get lost making their nursing home decisions, but don’t realize it before its too late!  (Note - You will never have this problem, once you know exactly how to make the correct choice…right from the start.)
  
  
• The Top 10 tips that will immediately equip you with the best (and most professional) jumpstart strategy for choosing a nursing home available today – taking away all the “guess work” from the process – and laying out the groundwork for your search, so you don’t have to!
  
  
  
  

 

“A Qualified Geriatric Care Manager

Can Change Your Life”

One of the most challenging things that a baby boomer must face when dealing with their aging parent’s health conditions is time management.  I don’t care if you live 10 minutes away or are across the country – the fact of the matter is that you have your own life to tend to, your own family, and you may feel guilty for not being able to care for Mom or Dad as much as you’d like, or as much as they need.

This is where a care manager can literally be a godsend for your family.

But what is a care manager?

 

Watch the video below to find out…

 

 

 

In my years I’ve gotten to know exceptional care managers, as well as people who shouldn’t be allowed to wear the title – Period.

 

And I’ve broken down all of my “insider” knowledge down for you…

 

…putting you on the “fast track” to finding and using the amazing resource of care management…

 

…and making the process as smooth as humanly possible.

 

You will learn things like:

• The Top 5 Indicators that a professional geriatric care manager may be right for you and your parent!  (Hint – If you feel the slightest bit overwhelmed by your aging parent situation, then get ready for smooth sailing from here on out)
  
  
• The number one thing care managers can do to make your life 10-times easier - starting the very first day – which most adult children overlook completely!
  
  
• How to detect whether you should be the one taking action to investigate care management for your aging parent!  (Note – If you have siblings, this may be the most important information you could ever receive)
  
  
• The 3 Most Important backgrounds a care manager should have – if they are credible - and what each credential means for your parent’s future!
  
  
• The first five steps any good care manager should take before anything else!  (Note – If your potential care manager does NOT take these steps, you can cross them off your list quickly…saving you from days of head-aching consideration)
  
  
• The Seven Major Responsibilities any good care manager should handle, how to address them with potential applicants, and how to relieve yourself of these responsibilities while staying in complete control of it all!
  
  
• Everything a care manager CANNOT DO – legal, financial, and medical – that most people wrongly assume!  (Hint – Knowing the “do’s” and “don’ts” of a care manager can make the entire process smoother than you’ve ever dreamed possible)
  
  
• How to assess your parent’s specific needs and a step-by-step breakdown of what “type” of care manager can suit your parent best!
  
  
• How to determine the affordability of a care manager, what they cost, and why you should consider the expenditure!
  
  
• How to find a qualified and experienced care manager fast!  (Hint – If you value your time and energy, this section is worth its weight in gold)
  
  
• The Top Five Questions to ask yourself when considering a care manager that most adult children miss completely, how to ask them, and what the answers mean for your parent’s well being!
  
  
• Seven quick-start tips for finding (and efficiently using) a care manager qualified to tackle every daily burden you may have…alleviating you of parent-caused stress…and finally giving you the relief you deserve, even if you live across town or across the country!
  
  
  
  
  

 

 

“How To Safely Manage

An Elder’s Finances”

 

Here’s the bottom line:

 

At some point, your Mom or Dad may (unfortunately) lose the mental capacity to handle their own money and make smart financial decisions. 

 

And its not something that’s exactly “easy” to talk about.  Especially when it comes to needing a Durable Power Of Attorney and getting the law involved.

 

Hear me talk about your financial struggle in this quick video…

 

 

 

As a lawyer, I’ve broken down the legal side of this stuff into easy to digest nuggets of instantly valuable information, but as a nurse, I understand the compassion you must have with your aging loved one in order to make this go as smoothly as possible.

Inside, I’ll show you things like:

• Durable Power Of Attorney Exposed in explicit detail, removing any confusion on this life changing legal document you might have!
  
  
• How to approach acquiring a Durable Power Of Attorney (DPOA), what is legally required, and which factors really matter to your aging parent the most!
  
  
• The #1 iron-clad necessity for an elder to sign a DPOA…and what impending disasters await you if it’s ignored!
  
  
• How to get legal advice for a DPOA fast and what to avoid if you don’t!  (Note – This section is imperative to your parent’s legal future, so listen up)
  
  
• How to help your parent choose the right “agent” for a DPOA…even if you’re not legally involved!
  
  
• A full walkthrough of preparing a DPOA while staying out of court!  (Hint – This can make or break your peace of mind, but you’ll never have to worry about that again)
  
  
• How to arrange a family meeting with your parent with as little drama as humanly possible!  (Note – Mandatory reading if you want to reduce arguing and anger in your approach)
  
  
• How to determine if a DPOA is even necessary at all!  Most adult children miss this completely, but you’ll have the upper hand once you know how!
  
  
• The hidden reality of being the DPOA in your parent’s life, what changes it demands from you and your Mom or Dad, and exactly what to expect ahead of time!  (Hint – If you are on the fence over a DPOA,  or worried about taking away your parent’s independence, this is a “must read” section)
  
  
• How to assess potential “agents” for your parent easily and remove wrongful candidates fast…so they don’t have to!
  
  
• The legal “ins and outs” of Durable Power of Attorney, what makes it “durable”, which rights it grants, and when!
  
  
• How to find the right attorney to prepare your DPOA regardless of your current income level!
  
  
• How to prevent intense family power struggles over DPOA matters, and what to do if they’ve already begun!  (Note – Family conflict is far less likely when reading this section)
  
  
• How to stop a renegade DPOA agent from robbing your Mom or Dad blind!
  
  
• How to plan ahead in case your parent becomes incapacitated, what to do, and when!
  
  
• The secrets behind stepping in at the “right moment” and implementing a DPOA before it’s too late!  (Note – This can seem terrifying for most adult children, but will be smooth sailing for you…once you know what the experts know)
  
  
• How to know when the last resort of “guardianship” is needed to protect your elder’s finances…even if they absolutely refuse!  (Hint – If you have a stubborn aging parent, I’m talking to you, here)
  
  
• How to master the duties of handling money for another person, what you can do (legally and otherwise) as a DPOA agent, and how to tackle this fast and as stress free as you can!
  
  
• How to craft a “Healthcare Directive” and gain legal control over your parent’s healthcare decisions!  (Note – This is NOT a DPOA for finances, but can be just as important when you learn how to use it properly)
  
  
• The advantages (and disadvantages) to “guardianship” (also called conservatorship) and how to use this last-ditch legal option to benefit your aging Mom or Dad directly when they are in danger without one!
  
  
• How to find (and hire) a professional fiduciary, where to look, and what to do (and not to do) as you search!
  
  
• The Top 10 quick-start tips for handling an aging parent’s money with as little resistance as humanly possible… starting today!
  
  
  

 

 

“How To End Family Conflict Over Elders

Once And For All”

So, tell me – how is your family handling all of this?

 

Are your brothers and/or sisters playing their part in the process…or are you the one increasingly overwhelmed with more and more responsibilities?

 

Or, if you’re an only child, what has your relationship with your parent turned into, and who do YOU talk to when you need to turn to someone else to help?

 

It’s never easy for any family to deal with their elders’ health decline, no matter what your situation is like.

 

Watch me talk more about family conflict below…

 

 

 

If you want to dramatically reduce stress in your life by sailing through family conflicts and resolving them as quickly as possible, then what I’m about to share with you will change your life forever.

You will learn things like:

• How to stay rational during feelings of crisis and make the best decisions possible for Mom or Dad!
  
  
• The First 5 people you can turn to immediately if family conflict gets out of control! (Note: These people are right under your nose…but only if you know where to look)
  
  
• The Top Three emotional reactions “only” adult children subconsciously have with aging parent conflicts and how to prevent these feelings from thwarting your conflict resolution before the topic ever gets brought up!
  
  
• How to search and quickly find trusted care giving resources online (or offline) to find the help you need…especially if you are forced to manage on your own!
  
  
• How To Approach irresponsible siblings – no matter how much you may disagree – on shared aging parent issues with as little drama as humanly possible!
  
  
• How to manage conflicts with long distance siblings!  (Hint – This is especially important if you are the only one seemingly responsible for your parent’s current conditions)
  
  
• How to set aside sibling rivalry and focus on your parent as the only thing that matters…like your Mom or Dad deserves!
  
  
• How to efficiently manage expectations from siblings so that you no longer feel like the only one responsible!
  
  
• The #1 Thing you can do right now to manage your own mental health when dealing with a difficult brother or sister!
  
  
• How to locate care giving resources in your area fast…no matter what financial situation you’re in!
  
  
• How to hire help WITHOUT feelings of anger or resentment from your aging Mom or Dad, what to say, and why!
  
  
• The secret “leader” technique for controlling conflict in any elder related family conflict and how to implement it smoothly – without confrontation!
  
  
• How to get a professional assessment of your parent’s situation no matter what level of income you may have!  (Note – This is highly recommended for smart conflict resolution, and now made easier than ever before)
  
  
• How to avoid conflict through “advance planning” techniques that will slash your stress level by half or more!
  
  
• How to devise a living will that will benefit every person in your family, where to set it up, and what to expect every step of the way!
  
  
• How to use a mediator to resolve even your toughest aging parent conflicts…no matter how bad they may seem right now!
  
  
• The Top Three places to find a professional mediator, the most important qualification to look for, and how to find the right specialist as fast as humanly possible!
  
  
• Mediator Myth’s Exposed:  Everything you need to know about a mediator’s professional (and personal) boundaries!  (Note – If you’ve considered hiring professional mediation, this section is mandatory reading)
  
  
• The little-known and poorly understood difference between mediation and arbitration, when each is required and for what types of conflict situations!  Your entire family will benefit from you drawing this fine line…once you know how.
  
  
• How to prevent sibling lawsuits – and more importantly – how to prevent things from getting so bad that anyone would even consider such a thing!
  
  
• How to understand where your parent’s emotions may be coming from, what to do about them, and how angry arguments can be easily avoided!
  
  
• How to dissolve intense levels of unspoken fear from your parent, your siblings, or even your own kids!
  
  
• How to start planning for the future today and prevent painful disagreements tomorrow!
  
  
• How to properly conduct family planning meetings with utmost efficiency, delicacy, and respect to everyone involved!
  
  
• How to handle “worst case scenario” elder conflicts even if Mom or Dad absolutely refuse to participate!  (Note – If you have a stubborn parent who needs your help, this section is for you)
  
  
• Seven quick-start tips for dealing with family conflicts about elders smoothly and with as little resistance as possible!
  
  
  

“How To Hire The Right Lawyer

For Your Aging Parent”

 

Here, let me let you in on a little “insider” secret that no other lawyer will likely tell you.

 

The thing is, passing the bar exam has absolutely nothing to do with a person’s ability to communicate with other people.  And, when it comes to finding a lawyer for your aging Mom or Dad, (or for you) communication is EVERYTHING.

 

You need someone you can trust, and after 30 years of practicing law, I can humbly say that I “know the ropes”. 

 

I’ll tell you more in the video below…

 

 

 

I can tell you this…

 

Not many lawyers I know would bother to tell you as much “behind the scenes” information that you’re about to receive. With this kind of legal fire-power behind you, dealing with elder legal issues will be 10-times easier than ever before!

You’ll learn things like:

• How to quickly analyze a lawyer’s people skills – especially with elders - PLUS the Number One warning sign that a prospective lawyer lacks the ability to communicate with your parent respectfully in a way he or she will easily understand!
  
  
• 4 Instant “Red Flags” of an under-qualified lawyer that most people overlook completely!  (Hint – This will save you heaps of unnecessary problems later once you know exactly how to detect them the very first meeting you have)
  
  
• The Top Three traits of a competent elder lawyer you can trust!
  
  
• The subtle (but painstakingly critical) distinction between “redirection” and “interruption” – a commonly misinterpreted factor that separates the best lawyers from the worst… and what knowing this invaluable information can mean for you and your aging parent’s future!
  
  
• How to tactfully test a lawyer’s manners - This often overlooked aspect of lawyer selection can directly impact the way your parent will be treated…especially when you are not around to see for yourself!
  
  
• How To Establish communication “ground rules” with a lawyer up front!  (Note – Most people that ignore this from the start find themselves in a world of confusion and regret…but you won’t have to worry about this at all, once you know what the experts know)
  
  
• The hidden truth behind legal specialization, how to determine if you need a specialist or not, and what each specialization means for your parent’s legal future!
  
  
• Three MANDATORY questions to ask a prospective lawyer that will instantly reveal their ability to meet your family’s special needs…and expose the truth behind a lawyer’s credentials fast!
  
  
• How to approach contacting a lawyer, what is legally required, and where to look for additional information they won’t tell you themselves!
  
  
• How to legally converse with a lawyer over your parent’s legal matters, what is required, and where to find it!  (Hint – This previously “grey area” in law will be uncommonly clear, once you know the ropes)
  
  
• How to find a lawyer for estate planning, elder neglect and elder abuse cases boiled down in explicit detail!  (Note – Consider all confusion a thing of the past, once you know the “ins and outs” broken down in easy to get simplicity)
  
  
• The “insider’s secrets” to assessing your first contact with a potential lawyer quickly, preventing the wrong choice from being made, and avoiding potential disasters in the future!  (Hint – This is NOT at all what you think…)
  
  
• How to thoroughly research a lawyer’s background - exposing any skeletons he or she may be hiding - without them ever knowing!
  
  
• Seven instantly valuable quick-start tips to lawyer selection success!
  
  
  

“How To Stand Up for Elders (And Win)

With Healthcare Giants”

It’s no surprise to learn that elder abuse is probably the worst thing your family could experience as your aging parent encounters mistreatment.

 

This – above all – is an issue I feel so passionately about that I could not “hold back” any of the tips, tricks, and beat-the-system tactics that I have picked up over the last 40 years…

 

…suing nursing homes for elder neglect (and making a difference in my client's lives)…

 

…while constantly trying my best to stop this unnecessary plague once and for all. 

 

And the rumors are true:  This situation is much harder since your elder is vulnerable, but it’s now easier than ever to stand up and make a massive difference in your elder’s life.

 

Watch this video for more information…

 

(Click to watch Carolyn talk about elder abuse)

 

 

If you ever thought Medicare was a brick wall, think again. 

 

I reveal everything, including things like:

• 7 Healthcare Consumer rights most people completely ignore that can make-or-break your case against any healthcare provider!
  
  
• How to question medical care efficiently (and effectively) to get the important answers your aging parent needs as quickly as possible!
  
  
• How to appeal to Medicare (and Medicaid) against wrongful denials of medically necessary claims, what to expect, and where to find help you need – All broken down in crystal-clear simplicity – to give you an edge in healthcare insurance warfare!
  
  
• The #1 Thing you must do – right now – that can save you weeks of relentless agony and headaches when approaching Medicare for the very first time!
  
  
• How to seamlessly involve your parent’s doctor to professionally tackle your healthcare heartache on your behalf!
  
  
• How to properly seek legal advice to fight Medicare! (Hint – This knowledge is mandatory for anyone whose parents have Medicare, whether you are currently having a problem or not)
  
  
• How To Slash through the customer service run-around of supplemental insurance companies and get your claims settled fast!
  
  
• How to get help to take legal action against unlawful insurance companies…no matter how complicated the claim!
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• The Secrets Behind “bad faith” – a legal term for an insurance company’s failure to approve a legitimate (and sometimes life threatening) claim – and how to guard your Mom or Dad from this potential insurance nightmare for good!
  
  
• How to deal with hospital staff – from administrators to physicians – no matter how “busy” they may seem!  (Note – Your parent’s safe long-term stay in a hospital or nursing home depends on this one, so listen up)
  
  
• How to ask hospital questions with confidence, what to say, to who, and when!
  
  
• Exposed:  Nursing Chain Of Command in hospitals broken down piece-by-piece, telling you who to talk to for what reason and how to get help as fast as you can!
  
  
• A simple (and easy) trick for removing all intimidation between you, doctors, and hospital staff!  (Hint – This practical “no brainer” is often overlooked by most baby boomers, but you’ll get it here in full detail)
  
  
• A Full Walkthrough for dealing with Discharge Coordinators, Case Managers, Risk Managers, Human Resources, and all other hospital administration (even up to the C.E.O)!  Your Mom, Dad, or family will be thrilled at how easily you seem to interact (and succeed) with them all…
  
  
• How to take emotion out of your complaint with hospital staff in a way that they completely respect…and what irreversible disaster it can mean – for you - if you don’t!
  
  
• How to be “pushy” – and get your way - with healthcare professionals without being disrespectful at all!
  
  
• PLUS:  Ten quick-start tips to stand up for your elder in the healthcare system with more power than you ever realized you had!
  
  

And that's just a small sample of what you'll find.

Each section of this guide has been carefully designed to short-cut your path to dealing with almost every aging parent issue.

I don't care if you've never had issues before.

Or if you're just starting to see the problem.

Or if you've already fought tooth-and-nail with your Mom or Dad over issues their aging has caused.

Or even if you haven't got a clue WHAT you are going to say.

None of that matters.

The ONLY thing that does matter right now... is your desire to do what’s best for your family.

To take that first, small, easy step that will empower you -- finally -- with professional techniques, methods and tactics that will drastically reduce your stress levels 10-fold.  Nice and easy.
Are you ready to get started?

Before I even mention a price... let's make you understand how EASY this decision really is.

I will assume ALL the risk here.

If... after checking out "The Boomers Guide To Aging Parents" for 30 entire days... you are unhappy with it -- for ANY reason at all -- then I INSIST you return it.

And your purchase price will be promptly refunded.

That's a...

30-Day 100% Money-Back Guarantee...
No Questions Asked.

That means... you essentially get to see and try out everything in the guide for FREE, if you choose.

And yes, it's a financial gamble for me to do this.

However, this course is the real thing.  I have poured everything I know about resolving elder care problems (and a lot I know about the legal system) into it…and I have YEARS of results and testimonials to prove it.

My reputation involves my professional titles.  I HAVE to fulfill on my advice ... and that means I have considered everything very carefully before offering it to you.

In my years of counseling clients, I have never run into anyone who requested a refund.  Because, again, this truly is the real thing here.

The choice is yours.

Check everything out, to your heart's content.

Treat the guide as your own, and dig in.

See what kind of results you get.

And if you're not happy, simply return it for a fast, prompt refund.

It's that simple.

No questions asked.  You do NOT need to give me a reason for the return.  I will trust you to do the right thing, as I have trusted people over my entire career.

Your price for this book is almost embarrassingly reasonable.

In fact, I often have to explain WHY I sell this book for so little.

And the answer is easy:  My personal consultations cost $350 per hour, and often elder issues are  the centerpiece for my client’s frustrations.  While they would have given anything for this kind of advice and professional tactics, and were relieved for the advice…they were only a small fraction of the thousands of adult children – silently struggling – with no one else to turn to.

Instead, they suffer though years of stressful trial and error, making every possible mistake, learning lessons painfully…and moving forward slowly.

Helping so many clients successfully “make it” down this long hard road, however, made me a VERY good teacher.  Because I’ve seen the same problems arise over and over again, I know how to navigate through a huge number of these issues by now.

Still, back at the start of my career, I made a simple vow:  If and when I “made it” with enough knowledge to be valuable to people struggling with aging parents…I would do everything I could to improve the lives of adult children forced to bear the burden of their parents and the stress that it can cause.

And I did “make it”, and beyond.  40 years of experience in two of the areas that affect aging parent problems the most have made me a seasoned adviser.

I KNOW how terrifying and totally overwhelming every single issue can be... and I am now very happy to share these solutions with the public.

And that's why this material is so ridiculously reasonable.

You will EASILY make your frustrations seem bearable the FIRST TIME you put almost any of my guidance to work for you. 

How Much Is This Gonna Cost You?

Your price for "The Boomers Guide To Aging Parents" is just $39.99.

It's like sitting down with me for an intense, private lesson on the finer points how to manage your life with aging parents, at a fraction of what it would cost you to sit down personally with me in my office and ask these questions so many people are asking.  Believe me, you are not alone in your frustrations.

Here’s How It Works…

When you click on the order button below, you'll go to my secure order page for your credit card information (You can also order by mail or PayPal if you choose, but my special free eBook offer is only available with credit/debit card purchases.) When you use my secure order form, you'll be able to download the book immediately as an Adobe Acrobat PDF file.

Your transaction is secure—using our secure server, your order information is transmitted using the latest SSL encryption technology to ensure complete and total privacy and security. The transaction will be billed to you as “Aging Parents” with our toll-free U.S. phone number included.

The whole process takes just a few minutes and you'll be reading your book in about 5 minutes.

When you get the book, scan it a couple of times and read the parts that jump out at you right away—then go back and read it cover to cover.

Whatever happens, you'll use this information over and over, in detail, as you're dealing with choosing a nursing home, talking to your parent, and keeping your family together through these troublesome times.

Ready to get started?  Just click this button to go to my secure shopping cart and place your order.

 

 

Wishing you success with your aging parents,

 

         Carolyn L. Rosenblatt , R.N., Attorney at Law

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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